Doing Carolyn Resnick’s Chair Challenge! First week of experiences I’m taking an online class with Carolyn Resnick called the Chair Challenge. I have used her methods before a bit with the herd, and love learning more from her. She’s my favorite conscious horsemanship teacher. When the special offer showed up in my Inbox to do the Chair Challenge, I jumped at the opportunity. Carolyn talks more about the importance of sitting with horses here.
Explored their territory.
They were curious. They have seen me do this before so no huge revelations. I did get almost a sense that they found it reassuring for my to inspect their areas at sunset. Malenna came over and hung out with me. T followed me for a bit. I made sure to stop at manure piles, handle the hay, ruffle the water surface, and get into each corner. I’m going to make this a nightly routine around dusk whenever possible.
Time to introduce reed, make sure they are brave with the reed, and use the reed to move them out of my space. I am using a very thin, very flexible short branch off a poplar tree for now. I’d love to find some local willow or wild reeds to harvest. I’m keeping my eyes open for some.
Sitting, then exploring how your horse would like to be approached. This is actually something we have all worked on together before. T especially has been my biggest teacher about proper approach etiquette. He actually used his energy to push me back out of his space to show me the edges of his energy bubble. This was a good refresher today, and also, Carolyn offered the very important detail to approach from head-on, catching both eyes. Being off to the side, even a little, becomes a cue to move.
Really neat tip from today’s lesson: Put your chair in the middle of a tarp if you need extra help keeping your horse out of your space. And I learned that the key is how your feet move, or don’t move. Sitting removes the chances that the horse can force your feet to move, even by accident.
I’ve also realized something about Lucky. He loves to hang out with me while I sit or stand quietly. He is respectful when I do. Yet, he walks away when offered a halter. He will often follow at liberty though. I’m not clear what he is trying to tell me yet, just that there is something I am not hearing.
In general, I’m finding that my entire day is more centered and calmer when I make the time to sit with the horses, meditate, focus on gratitude and appreciation for all the sounds and sights and smells of my surroundings. I find that my mind snaps into clarity and quiet much faster and easier. I am also making time to share territory with my goat herd, and getting similar reactions from them.